Wednesday, 10 March 2010

My Project:)

Since starting my project I've been questioning everything, like CAN people really change? if so, What does it take to change that person? and Why do we always find the need to want to change someone? shouldn't we be happy with the way that person is? I mean isn't that the person we started off knowing and grew closer to? We all make mistakes, who wants a perfect friend or family member? It's like everyone has a checklist that makes up the 'perfect' or 'ideal' friend, it's the checklist that everyone craves, not the actual person. I also heard someone question, 'does love actually exist?' she made a very good point of adding 'noone can explain what it feels like, so how do we know it exists?' it made me think...when asked what love feels like I'm left puzzled and non-responsive, what does it feel like? do we all feel differently? some may say love is being willing to do ANYTHING for someone but the most common answer is...'you know when your in love...you'll just know' but how? If love does exist...then there must be a wide range of it between a wide range of people, parents and children, couples, pets and pet owners, friends...the project has really caught my interest and it's made me integed to look into things a lot more when it comes to problems of the heart:)